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		<title>Home birth and birth center birth.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 06:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Consider this…A birth center birth is a home birth in someone else’s home. All the same safety measures are present but the woman/family has to move in and move home and of course, pay for the pleasure of doing so. Some centers are beautiful but never as beautiful as driving away from a home knowing &#8230; <span class="more-link"><a href="http://thoughtfulwoman.com/2013/01/31/home-birth-and-birth-center-birth-2/">Continue reading &#187;</a></span><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thoughtfulwoman.com&#038;blog=40385713&#038;post=409&#038;subd=thoughtfulwomancnm&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Consider this…A birth center birth is a home birth in someone else’s home. All the same safety measures are present but the woman/family has to move in and move home and of course, pay for the pleasure of doing so. Some centers are beautiful but never as beautiful as driving away from a home knowing mom &amp; baby won’t have to get out into traffic and find safe passage home.</p>
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		<title>Do you need a second opinion?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 05:49:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sherryoldfield</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you feel overwhelmed? Are the decisions you need to make more complicated than you imagined? Do you wonder if some of the providers are being less than transparent? I think there is a need for a provider to talk with you that isn&#8217;t focused on securing your business. I am launching a consulting service &#8230; <span class="more-link"><a href="http://thoughtfulwoman.com/2013/01/31/do-you-need-a-second-opinion/">Continue reading &#187;</a></span><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thoughtfulwoman.com&#038;blog=40385713&#038;post=240&#038;subd=thoughtfulwomancnm&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Do you feel overwhelmed?  Are the decisions you need to make more complicated than you imagined?  Do you wonder if some of the providers are being less than transparent?  I think there is a need for a provider to talk with you that isn&#8217;t focused on securing your business. I am launching a consulting service to help moms sort out options and help less experienced midwives set critical priorities. After 20 years and thousands of births, I know a thing or two about the dilemmas you&#8217;re facing.  Do you really understand the differences between different kinds of midwives?  Do you know what to expect from your provider? Bring your list of questions, sit down for coffee/tea, and we will tackle them all in an informed and no pressure fashion.  You can ask &amp; say what you want without any fear of feeling bad or hurting my feelings. After all&#8230;this isn&#8217;t about me it is all about you!</p>
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		<title>Birth and Money</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2012 05:44:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sherryoldfield</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Disclaimer-I am a midwife and I keep lousy hours so when I post this late my friend &#38; editor doesn&#8217;t get a chance to save me from myself! Please forgive my imperfect form &#38; style.  As many of you know, I left the institutional setting early this year and decided to try being outside the &#8230; <span class="more-link"><a href="http://thoughtfulwoman.com/2012/10/11/birth-and-money/">Continue reading &#187;</a></span><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thoughtfulwoman.com&#038;blog=40385713&#038;post=193&#038;subd=thoughtfulwomancnm&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Disclaimer-I am a midwife and I keep lousy hours so when I post this late my friend &amp; editor doesn&#8217;t get a chance to save me from myself! Please forgive my imperfect form &amp; style.  <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </strong></p>
<p>As many of you know, I left the institutional setting early this year and decided to try being outside the system. I was scared but I felt I had some support and I could do it. I don&#8217;t like talking about money with parents. It feels strange &amp; outside the relationship we are building. The thing I have learned over the last year is that if I don&#8217;t do it someone else will. I know now, that I would rather explain costs, policies, and insurance than to risk that what is said may be less than factual or at the very least confusing. If something sounds &#8220;too good&#8221; it probably is and if the explanation sounds &#8220;shady&#8221; then it could be. I have learned to be very clear and I use a billing service that operates the same way. I believe if you have gone to the trouble to secure insurance then you should see an immediate benefit. I think the earlier you pay the less your deposit should be. I don&#8217;t want money to ever be the reason a woman doesn&#8217;t get the kind of birth she and her family want! We will work with Larsen Billing and other resources to make sure you get-Your birth&#8230;your way!</p>
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		<title>Erica&#8217;s Homebirth</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Oct 2012 05:52:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sherryoldfield</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m sitting at home, sick with a cold/no voice but 100 ideas/goals!  I have a link to a video that feels like money did when I was a kid-absolutely burning a hole in my pocket-LOL I know this &#8220;dates&#8221; me but I don&#8217;t care.  This video illustrates so many good things that I can&#8217;t stand &#8230; <span class="more-link"><a href="http://thoughtfulwoman.com/2012/10/10/ericas-homebirth/">Continue reading &#187;</a></span><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thoughtfulwoman.com&#038;blog=40385713&#038;post=178&#038;subd=thoughtfulwomancnm&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sitting at home, sick with a cold/no voice but 100 ideas/goals!  I have a link to a video that feels like money did when I was a kid-absolutely burning a hole in my pocket-LOL I know this &#8220;dates&#8221; me but I don&#8217;t care.  This video illustrates so many good things that I can&#8217;t stand it any longer. My daughter, Erica, has four sweet babies that all were born at home. This is a video of the fourth, Isaac, born August 28, 2012. He came in the late afternoon after a wonderful pregnancy and labor.  Lynsey Stone came for the birth and I cannot say enough good things about her and birth photography! I understand it is money that may seem better spent somewhere else but after thousands of births I can confidently say-nothing will bring you more pleasure&#8230;someday.  My other little grandchildren were actively present at this birth and I would submit that no matter their response it is worthwhile to entertain their presence.  If we are ever to undo the damage that has been done to birth in the United States it will undoubtedly start to change with our children and their children.   Please enjoy and feel free to comment &amp; ask questions about homebirth, kids and birth, birth photography, or anything else.</p>
<p>Sherry</p>
<p><a href="http://www.dfwbirthphotographer.com/IsaacGraysonBell.html">http://www.dfwbirthphotographer.com/IsaacGraysonBell.html</a></p>
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		<title>Welcome to our site!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2012 03:57:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We are so happy to announce the launch of Thoughtful Woman. We have been brought together by our desire to support women as they travel through the seasons of their lives. You will notice frequent changes to our website as we continue to grow and hope that you all come by frequently to check out &#8230; <span class="more-link"><a href="http://thoughtfulwoman.com/2012/09/18/welcome-to-our-site/">Continue reading &#187;</a></span><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thoughtfulwoman.com&#038;blog=40385713&#038;post=69&#038;subd=thoughtfulwomancnm&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are so happy to announce the launch of Thoughtful Woman. We have been brought together by our desire to support women as they travel through the seasons of their lives. You will notice frequent changes to our website as we continue to grow and hope that you all come by frequently to check out our new additions. We are excited to start this journey with all of you!<a href="http://thoughtfulwomancnm.files.wordpress.com/2012/09/isaac.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image" src="http://thoughtfulwomancnm.files.wordpress.com/2012/09/isaac.jpg?w=950" alt="Image" /></a></p>
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